Career Q&A: Is this a job-search faux pas?

August 29, 2012

Career Q&A: Is this a job-search faux pas?

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By Karla L. Miller / Special to The Washington Post
Q: I am a college junior. I was applying for internships and had only heard back from one place. They told me the position was mine if I wanted it. I said, "OK, sounds good." A couple of days ago, another workplace called me -- one I am more interested in. I have an interview with them next week.

Is that bad? Did I technically already "commit" to the first internship?

When I am applying for jobs, what if the perfect opportunity comes after I've accepted another offer? Is there anytime when you can't bail?

A: Your realistic odds of legal repercussions are slim (for a paying job) to none (for an unpaid gig), from what Ober Kaler employment lawyer Sharon Snyder tells me. But bailing on an offer you've accepted is generally bad form. And don't be surprised if your school hears about it.

As I see it, everyone should be allowed a single "get out of job free" card to be used when a once-in-a-career opportunity pops up at an inopportune time. Are you sure you want to play that card before your career has even passed "Go"?

Or, using an even more dated metaphor: Weighing job offers is a delicate dance. You must do what's best for you while stepping on as few toes as possible. Thus, you should always request a few days to consider -- and use that time to follow up on your other leads.

Next time, keep some space open on that dance card. This time? I'd recommend you dance with the one that brung you.

Karla L. Miller writes an advice column on navigating the modern workplace. Email questions to wpmagazine@washingtonpost.com.