October 15, 2010
You and your boss: BFFs forever or strictly professional?
NWjobs
Who says the recession hasn't brought coworkers together? In a recent survey by employment agency Adecco Staffing U.S., 78 percent of managers polled said they felt a stronger bond with their team members than they did three years ago. Direct reports joined in this lovefest too, with 61 percent saying they felt closer to their boss than before the recession began.
[Flickr photo by Kumar Appaiah]
But wait -- there's more. Ninety-one percent of employees polled told Adecco they think their boss respects them and that the feeling is mutual. Moreover, 86 percent of respondents said they trust their manager.
To obtain these warm and fuzzy figures, Adecco polled 1,000 employed U.S. adults in September. The survey was conducted in honor of National Boss Day, which is celebrated today this year.
None of this is to say that the majority of employees are having their boss over to dinner every weekend or texting them their deepest darkest secrets late into the night. In fact, Adecco found that a majority of respondents didn't feel that "socializing with the boss" was necessary to succeed at work.
Other fun facts this survey turned up:
- Nine percent of respondents said they've shown an interest in their manager's hobbies to try to advance their career, and 7 percent said they've tried to sleep their way to career advancement by having an office fling.
- Although a majority of Americans now use online social networks, only 18 percent of those polled said they're connected with their boss on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, or Foursquare. Of these respondents, a third regretted being connected to their boss online and almost half have tweaked their privacy settings to hide their posts from their manager.
- Curiously, 42 percent of the Generation X workers polled said they thought connecting with their boss online via social networks was a smart career move, as opposed to 23 percent of the Boomers and Millennials polled.
- Most respondents said the respect the feel for a boss couldn't be undermined by an age difference, no matter how wide the generation gap. But that conviction waned as the hypothetical age gap between underling and manager grew, with 89 percent of respondents saying they'd have no trouble respecting a boss two years younger than them but just 56 percent saying they could respect a boss 20 years younger than them.
- Six in 10 employees "consider their boss a friend." But only three in 10 spend quality time with their manager outside work, and only two in 10 enjoy doing so.
How about you? Do you socialize with your boss after hours? Do you want to? Or do you think bosses and direct reports should keep their relationship strictly professional?
Michelle Goodman is the author of "My So-Called Freelance Life" and "The Anti 9-to-5 Guide." E-mail Michelle at mgoodman@nwjobs.com
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Michelle Stewart on October 18, 2010 11:28 AM | Reply
I have a boss that sent a FB request to me and I never responded because I didn't see her as a "Friend". In not accepting her request, she felt rejected and I knew she got a true insight of how I truly felt about her. As an employee under her, I felt from the day of the interview that she would never be a friend. However, with certain hesitations I accepted the position due to there were necessary goals that I needed to achieve that having a job could do. With much glee, I have accomplished all of those goals but was subjected to a vindictive and toxic supervisor who constantly disrespectful to upper management, shared her personal skank behavior, had absolutely no morals, terrible upbringing, divorced drama, paid for live in boyfriend college education who is 15 years younger, various illegitimate children are being raised unruly and the list goes on and on... She lies and creates a controlling and divided workplace among the employees. I would never invite her to my home; she is a snoop, liar, dirty and closet racist. I would never spend time with her after work; she's a drunken lush and promiscuous person with children. She is the worse supervisor that I'm ever experience in LIFE. I do not take the word "Friend" lightly and she does not know how to be a TRUE friend to anyone.